I have NO idea!
As a single mother (mostly), professional, property owner, entrepreneur human I don’t think I experience much relaxation. I know I don’t. I’m usually on alert making sure we are safe, responding to requests, being there for others (and myself a bit) and it is low level stressful all the time. Ugh. Hate it! I’m low-key tired all the time. Rest fully almost never. Restless, idea interrupted sleep often. Engaged always. Grumpy sometimes. Excited a lot of the time, but chilled? Relaxed…almost never.
But this has to change. My life is happening now despite being responsible for so much this is my LIFE and I get to decide how to live it and I want to live it relaxed or at least have better more interesting things to worry about. Champagne Problems are better than everyday junk! 🙂 Relaxed and unscheduled is my fantasy! And living our fantasies is why we are here.
Single moms especially need to be out there LIVING. Whatever that means to you. For me it means adventuring around the world with my son. Don’t let other people’s judgements of you keep you from living and doing life with your kids. The greatest gift we can give them is our happiness.
I’m excited about what’s coming in the next 6 months and thrilled about a year from now. Right now is a-ok too, because I’m dreaming what will be into place. Yes.
As the guru of loving yourself I declare this the Year of FREE! Do what you want to do. Figure out how. Make a loose plan and get started on it. Nothing is perfect and issues won’t go away, but life is only happening now. So go on and get the life (relaxed or otherwise) that you want. I am. Watch!